"He Told Me To Chill": This Woman Suspected That Her Boyfriend Was About To Cheat With His Co-Worker, So She Did What Probably Any Woman Would Do
Fabiana Buontempo
·6-min read
Cheating is one of the most hurtful things someone can experience in a relationship. Whether someone is blindsided by being told by their partner (or the person they're cheating with) or they found out after doing a bit of snooping, it's all very hurtful.
In the r/relationship_advice subreddit, this OP (original poster) shared how she had an inkling that her boyfriend might cheat on her with his coworker. The OP took it upon herself to message the coworker she was suspicious of and ask her questions. Here's the full story:
The OP continued by writing, "Fast forward to today, two weeks after the incident, we went to a party, and he got so drunk that I had to walk him from the car to our bed. As I was about to get in bed myself, his phone popped up with a notification saying, 'You up?' It was from the girl named Addy."
The OP went on to write, "I messaged her. I told her I was my boyfriend's girlfriend and sent photos of my boyfriend and me with timestamps on them. I told her I knew when they went out and asked her not to message my boyfriend until I figured everything out. She never responded but removed my boyfriend from her followers a few minutes later. I'm scared about what could happen if he finds out what I did, and we may break up. I don't even know if he's cheating. He downplayed it last time by saying, 'You can have a guy work friends, but I can't?' I don't really know what to believe. Please help. I now regret messaging Addy. I am typing all of this at 4 a.m. I don't know what will happen when he finds out."
Eek, that was a doozy! So the question at hand is if this OP is the asshole for messaging the coworker? Reddit had a lot to say, and I agree with all of them.
This person said what everyone is thinking.
Yes to this advice!!
This person brought up a very valid point.
Lastly, this commenter told the OP the hard truth about the situation.
What are your thoughts on this situation? Since we know the girlfriend isn't the a**hole, do you think the boyfriend or Addy is? Share all your thoughts with me in the comments below!
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