Men, I Want To Hear The Biggest Red Flags And "Icks" You've Gotten From Other Men

We've heard a lot from women about what "icks" they get from men that totally kill the spark. But what I'm wondering is this: men, what are the icks and red flags you get from other men that have made you say, "Wait, this guy is a total weirdo," or realize you don't want this dude in your life?

Tyler James Williams wearing a checkered coat, striped shirt, and dark tie, looking to the side. Indoor setting
Tyler James Williams wearing a checkered coat, striped shirt, and dark tie, looking to the side. Indoor setting
Tyler James Williams wearing a plaid coat, a striped shirt, a tie, and a sweater, looking into the camera
Tyler James Williams wearing a plaid coat, a striped shirt, a tie, and a sweater, looking into the camera

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Maybe you've put a lot of effort into your relationship with him, and came to realize after a while that he was never initiating the hangouts. That can feel really lonely — tell me about it!

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Perhaps it was something "shallow," like he was a total slob whenever you went to his place to hang out, and it just made you not want to go there anymore. I want to hear about it.

A messy room with clothes scattered on the floor, a laundry basket, and a lone plastic bottle

Messy bedroom floor

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Maybe you were out at the bar with friends, and you realized for the first time that he's actually really rude and obnoxious. Or maybe he acted really cringe when it came to women. Write about it down below!

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Maybe he's always the taker in the friendship, or you've noticed he treats people like waiters badly, or you overheard him being mean to his mom (it happens), and you just decided this isn't the kind of guy you want to be your friend. What happened?

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Whatever it is, feel free to write about it in the comments down below. Or, if you prefer, you can check out this anonymous Google Form. Who knows — your answers may be included in an upcoming BuzzFeed Community post!