Dating a Leo man? Read this first
There are just a few basics that need to be explored when you first start dating someone. Where is he from? What does he do for a living? Oh, and most definitely, when’s his birthday? This isn’t just for remembering when to send that “happy b-day :)” text! Knowing a potential partner's zodiac sign can really help in understanding his behaviour. Astrology helps us break down personality traits, pet peeves, and, yes, even dating patterns. It can be fun and informative to look up his sign and see if you're astrologically compatible.
If you’re dating, insta sleuthing (hi, guilty), or just fantasising over a Leo man, we’re here to help you navigate one of the most alluring signs. These complex beings are notoriously the kings of the jungle and zodiac. I mean, their symbol is the regal lion for a reason! He can’t help that the spotlight follows him in just about every situation. We feel for you if your heart skips a few beats after seeing a Leo man walk into the room. C’mon, what is up with that gaze and swag?
Leo men are totally dazzling and can charm their way right into your heart. But they can also be a lil self-absorbed and difficult to understand. Luckily, astrology allows us to decipher personality traits, pet peeves, and so much more. And trust me when I say, there is sooo much more to a Leo man than you initially realised.
So if your guy was born between 23rd July and 22nd August, you’re in for a treat. Life with a Leo is rarely boring, but as it goes with any sign, there are some things you may want to keep an eye out for. Read on because we’ve got the deets on all things Leo!
First, a birth chart calculator
Not sure if your partner/crush/whoever is really a Scorpio? Put their bday into this birth chart calculator to make sure:
This birth chart calculator was created by www.astro-seek.com in collaboration with astrologer Narayana Montúfar. Learn more about Narayana's work on her website www.naramon.com.
The Leo basics
Birthday: 23rd July to 22nd August
Modality: Fixed
Element: Fire
Ruling planet: The Sun
Represented by: The lion
Tarot card: Strength
Best crystals: Peridot, amber, tourmaline, red jasper
Rules this body part: The heart, spine, and upper back
Keywords: Passionate, warm, generous, caring, attention-grabbing, leader
Best traits: Loyal, brave, creative, charismatic, confident
Worst traits: Over-dramatic, self-centered, egotistical
Love anthem: 'I Like It,' by Cardi B, Bad Bunny, and J Balvin
Watch this romance movie together: The Idea of You
Famous Leo men: Barack Obama, Joe Jonas, Shawn Mendes, Chris Hemsworth, Jason Momoa, Dylan Sprouse, Cole Sprouse, Andy Samberg, Lil Uzi Vert, Paul Wesley, Daniel Radcliffe, Mick Jagger, Terry Crews, Daniel Dae Kim, Antonio Banderas, Ben Affleck, Steve Carrell, Sebastian Stan, Andrew Garfield, Austin Butler, Bill Skarsgard, Carlos PenaVega, Ben Barnes, Jesse Williams, Jaemin, Bo Burnham
A Leo man's best traits
There's a lot to love about a Leo man. They're confident, charismatic, and attractive — people are just naturally drawn to them. But even though they're a bit self-centred, they're also incredibly generous, warmhearted, and loyal. If you're with a Leo, you're going to have a great time.
A Leo man's worst traits
So yeah, Leos are famously self-centred, which can translate to a little bit of selfishness. It's not that they're intentionally ignoring your needs, it's just that their own are always at the front of their mind. If you're dating a Leo, you'll have to speak up about what you want rather than expecting him to notice
The best matches for a Leo man
Leo and Libra
Leos love being coddled and having their egos stroked, so flirtatious, romantic Libra is a great match! This couple is always being invited to parties because they’re so much fun to be around. Both signs love attention and truly want the best for everyone. They can def learn a lot from each other and will likely have a very balanced relationship.
Leo and Aries
Kingly Leo is attracted to someone who’s just as vibrant and unique as they are, so Aries is a wonderful match too. Both are full of passion and intensity that will, together, make sparks fly. They’re both bold and brash, and their fire sign compatibility is out of this world! Plus, there is a sexual chemistry that seems to just get better and better with age.
Leo and Sagittarius
Fellow fire sign Sagittarius has a spontaneous, adventurous spirit that Leo finds super attractive. These two firebrands throw the best parties, go on the most luxurious holidays, and basically glow with charisma. Talk about a power couple!
Leo and Virgo
Virgo’s realism can balance out Leo’s ego, while Leo can teach practical Virgo to live a little! While they’re not very similar, these two signs have a very complementary energy. Virgo plans the party, Leo invites the guests, and they all have a fabulous time.
Leo and Gemini
Air sign Gemini brings out Leo's playful side, and they're just as energetic as Leo is. A Gemini and Leo pair can have a ton of fun together. They're like a bonfire, burning hot and ready for marshmallows!
Leo and Aquarius
Leo has opposites-attract style chemistry with their zodiacal opposite, Aquarius. These two might seem like a counterintuitive match at first — Leo has their fan base, Aquarius has a reputation for being something of a loner — but both are super smart, super creative, and passionate about doing good in the world.
Leo and Leo
Finally, a Leo/Leo duo makes the perfect power couple! If these two can support each other rather than compete for attention, they can be a great fit.
The worst matches for a Leo man
Leo and Taurus
Leo and Taurus may have to put in a little extra work when it comes to a relationship. Both Tauruses and Leos are stubborn, which can make compromising a challenge. Not to mention, Leos love to indulge, while Tauruses are super practical. For their relationship to thrive, Leo should have more patience and Taurus should practice flexibility.
Leo and Scorpio
Scorpios tend to be mysterious and keep a lower profile, whereas Leos love the spotlight. Scorpio can get uncomfy living a Leo lifestyle, and vice versa! Both signs are also prone to jealousy and passiveness, which means they can be passive aggressive AF.
Leo and Cancer
Leo can also have tension with homebody Cancer, who simply doesn't gel with Leo's live-fast-die-young lifestyle. Cancer wants to stay home and relax, and Leo always wants to go out! Like Scorpio, this water sign prefers to keep a lower profile.
That said, having incompatible Sun signs doesn’t mean your relationship is doomed — it just means you might have to put in a little work to really ~get~ each other. And compatibility is about so much more than your Sun sign anyway, so if your Moon signs or another part of your birth charts mesh well, you might be an astrologically blessed match anyway.
But even if your birth chart is full of Scorpio placements, if you make an effort to understand your Leo partner — and vice versa — you can have a great relationship too. And TBH, ~astrological tension~ can often lead to ~sexual tension~, so there’s something to be said for “incompatibility”!
Sex with a Leo man
For a Leo, sex is all about fun and joy. They express themselves through touch, so expect lots of foreplay and eye contact that will make you shiver. Although these lions may stick to a few classics, like missionary or doggy, you can bet they will be assertive and dominant in whichever position. Their love of attention means they might have a bit of an exhibitionist streak, enjoy sex in public, have a group sex fantasy…or at least get a thrill out of exchanging nudes. (And maybe a little homemade porn, too.) Because Leos are so chatty, there will likely be a lot of dirty talk.
A first date with a Leo man
Leos don’t really do “casual.” Coffee dates? BORING. A Leo will take you to a private party, on a hot-air balloon ride, or at least to that buzzy cocktail bar that just opened and has a monthlong waiting list. (Don’t worry about it — they know the bartender.) Leos have a romantic flair that means they might surprise you with flowers or write you a poem or even serenade you... They’re extremely creative and ~dramatic~, is what I’m saying! Just don’t mistake grand romantic gestures for promises of commitment — Leos are down to get cuffed, but they need to really get to know and trust you before they take that step.
A relationship with a Leo man
Dating a Leo man means being part of a power couple, even if you're not a Leo yourself. He's just that popular that his glow reflects on you. Hopefully you can keep up with his demanding schedule and legion of fans!
A Leo man in love
When a Leo man is in love, you become the centre of his world (right alongside himself, of course). This loyal, passionate fire sign will be incredibly romantic. Hope you like PDA, grand gestures, and flash mobs!
A Leo man at home
Leos live in the ~lap of luxury~. They're basically like especially pampered house cats. Expect cozy blankets, velvet couches, and plentyyyy of mirrors. Maybe even a framed self-portrait or two? Leos are one of the most social signs of the zodiac, and they like to surround themselves with a pride. Aka they probably have a roommate or two!
A Leo man at work
Look at the person who speaks up in every Zoom meeting, who brings the wildest (and sometimes genius) ideas to pitch meetings, who goes to every happy hour. They're probably a Leo! These super-social signs are also très creative and natural leaders. While everyone talks about Leo's flair for the dramatic, people sometimes overlook their caring, generous, loyal nature. They're the centre of every office party, yes, but they also have your back when you need them.
A Leo man with friends
Like I said, Leos are SOCIAL. These regal lions have a wide circle of friends, acquaintances, admirers, and fans. They get invited to every party and throw even better ones. Even the most distant of Leo acquaintances can bask in their glow, but if you've earned your way into a Leo's inner circle, you've got it made! They're so generous and caring, they'll throw you just as big a b-day party as they throw themselves.
A gift for a Leo man
Get a Leo a gift that speaks to their vanity (a ring light, new sunglasses); something thoughtful and personal (a note about how much they mean to you, a framed photo of you two together as kids); or something that they can use to tap into their creative side (oil paints, knitting needles, a new camera).
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