We Wanna Hear The Moment You Realized Something About Your Partner Wasn't Quite Right

Recently, we wrote about the heartbreaking moments when people realized something was "off" about their family, and the BuzzFeed Community commented with a ton of their own answers.

This experience was sadly common, and it got me thinking about other moments when people realized something was "off" in their relationships — like, for example, romantic relationships. So now we want to hear from you — if you've been in a toxic or abusive relationship, when was the first time you realized something was *off*?

Was it the first time you went on a trip together, and your partner freaked out over something small or made you feel bad about perfectly normal behavior?

Maybe it was when you hung out with your friend and their partner, and things seemed veryyyyy different to how they were for you.

Or maybe it's something a parent or child said that helped you realize things were not right.

Whatever it was that helped you realize your relationship was "off," tell us the story in the comments below or via this anonymous form and you could be featured in an upcoming BuzzFeed Community post.