Women, What’s Something That You Find Men Often Do Wrong During Sex?

Let’s be real — sex is one of those things where open communication is key, but sometimes it can be awkward to say what’s really on your mind in the moment. Whether it’s focusing too much on one thing or missing the cues that signal what actually feels good, there are a few things that men might be getting a little wrong during sex.

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For example, maybe you feel like guys tend to skip foreplay and go straight to the "main event" without getting you fully warmed up.

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Or perhaps cunnilingus is totally left off the table even though he expects you to go down on him?

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Maybe guys tend to focus on penetration rather than stimulating you in ~other~ ways, leaving you bored and less than satisfied.

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So we’re asking you, the BuzzFeed Community: What’s something you find men often misunderstand or could do better in the bedroom? It’s time to spill the tea (or maybe just help everyone have a better time!)

Whatever you think men should improve upon in the bedroom, tell us below! However, if you prefer to stay anonymous, feel free to fill out this Google Form. Your response may be used in a future BuzzFeed post!