What single adults in the UK are looking for in a partner
Single adults looking for love want someone who is honest and makes them laugh - but they also need to have a good job and be incredibly attractive.
A poll of 2,000 singletons found six in 10 want to ‘date up’ when it comes to love - a new trend where in order to better their lifestyle, meet new friends and have holidays, people are changing what they look for in a potential partner.
And 70% believe getting into a relationship with someone who is doing well in life will improve their own.
Another 72% felt they had settled for second best in previous relationships, but now feel they could do better.
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More than six in 10 (62%) want to aim higher as they felt they deserved better, while 45% claimed their ex-partner didn’t treat them well enough, and 37% simply want the best for themselves.
Finding someone who is honest, makes them laugh and is kind, topped the list as the most desirable traits single people are looking for.
However, having a good job, a love for travel and owning their own property also made the cut.
But more than a third believe dating is harder now than it was five years ago, possibly because the way in which people meet potential partners has changed.
Now 54% use dating apps and websites to find love, while 51% meet someone when out and about.
And one in three meet potential dates through friends or family set ups.
It also emerged nearly two thirds feel it is important that their friends and family are impressed with the person they are dating.
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While 65% said it is important the person they date has a good job and earns a high salary.
Surprisingly, 40% of men believe in the notion of love at first site, compared to just 22% of women, who don’t believe it in it and like to be open minded.
Of those polled by OnePoll, more than a quarter claim they are often told by friends and family that they ‘deserve better’ when it comes to dating.
“It is clear singletons aren’t looking to just settle for anything that comes along these days and there is nothing wrong with that, it just might take a little bit longer to find but will be worth the wait," says Brandon Wade, CEO from Seeking.com, which commissioned the research.
“Finding love can be a full-time job at times, but knowing exactly what you want should if anything, help you to rule out those who aren’t quite right," Wade adds.
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“Time is valuable and there is nothing worse than dating someone for a period of time to then realise you are on completely different pages. It is time to cut out the mixed messages, be direct, and know exactly where you stand when it comes to love.”
