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I Am Weeping After Watching This Woman Gift Her Mom And Grandparents Their First Home

Alexis Johnson, known as @alexis_nikohl on TikTok, is a 31-year-old publicist from Los Angeles, California. A video of the day she surprised her mother, grandparents, aunt, and cousins with a home recently went viral with 4.5 million views.

A person in a stylish outfit holds a phone and key, entering a house with surprise text: "POV: You broke a generational curse and bought a house."
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It starts with Alexis walking around the house alone. The caption says, "POV: You broke a generational curse and bought a house for your whole family (they had no idea)."

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You then see Alexis hiding upstairs as her family walks inside. "Come on in," said her cousin, who was in on the surprise. "There's something happening," her grandpa said.

A family smiles at the bottom of a staircase in a spacious home, expressing joy. Text above reads: "POV: You broke a generational curse and bought a house for your whole family."
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"WELCOME HOME!" Alexis screamed while shooting confetti onto the first floor.

Person in black jacket covered in star stickers, celebrating homeownership milestone. Text overlay: "POV: You broke a generational curse and bought a house."
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Of course, everyone loses it. Here's her mom:

A person in a camouflage jacket covers their face in emotion. Text: "POV: You broke a generational curse and bought a house for your whole family."
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And her grandmother:

Person kneeling at the bottom of a staircase, expressing emotion, with text above about buying a house for family
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Actually, her aunt just couldn't believe Alexis lied about her whereabouts. "This girl told me she’s going on a trip," she said.

Person covers face with hands in emotion while another stands beside, labeled "Aunt." Text overhead says breaking a generational curse by buying a house
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Here are her grandmother's glasses:

Glasses on wooden floor with scattered star-shaped confetti. Text above reads: "POV: You broke a generational curse and bought a house for your whole family."
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And her grandfather:

Elderly man stands proudly on a lawn with arms crossed. Text above reads: "POV: You broke a generational curse and bought a house for your whole family."
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"Did you know this?" her grandmother asked him. "I ain't know nothing," he said in disbelief.

Person stands on a wooden deck, overlooking a lawn and tree, with text about breaking a generational curse by buying a house for their family
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The video ends with grandma getting down to the nitty-gritty, "How many bedrooms is it?"

An older woman stands indoors, looking surprised and emotional. Text overlay: "POV: You broke a generational curse and bought a house for your whole family."
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In the comments, people were also sobbing. "YOU are your ancestors wildest dreams. YOU DID THAT," this person cried.

Comment stating "YOU are your ancestors wildest dreams. YOU DID THAT" followed by emotional and fire emojis. 1102 likes
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"So you mean to tell me that grandma and grandpa get to live with their 2 daughters again like when they were little??" this person asked.

A comment pointing out the grandparents get to live with their kids again
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"Grandpa was reflecting and thinking about the generations that would enjoy this," this person pointed out.

Comment: "Grandpa was reflecting and thinking about the generations that would enjoy this." Reaction count: 26.4K likes
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"i gotta stop crying about strangers on this app bro," this person confessed.

Social media comment reads: "grandpa: I AIN KNOW NUFFIN. i gotta stop crying about strangers on this app bro ??" with a reply option and 1968 likes
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And a lot of people were encouraged to do the same thing for their families. "I'm saving this because in the next 5 years I wanna be able to do this for my family," this person shared.

Social media comments: One user vows to achieve goals for their family in 5 years, another encourages them with support
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"I claim this for myself too, in Jesus name," this person prayed.

Comment: "I claim this for myself too, in Jesus name" with 5070 likes
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Other people suggested more families should come together and build generational wealth this way. "So many families could afford this if we just stuck together... Bless you!" this person said.

Social media comment suggesting that families pooling resources could afford to buy a home instead of paying rent separately
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"To lift a family, an entire 3 generations into a new/higher economic class, is a strength and love AND purpose that many ppl can't even come close to achieving. Amazing," this person said.

Comment lauding the strength and purpose of elevating three generations to a higher economic class, described as nearly unattainable for many
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In an interview with BuzzFeed, Alexis shared which family member's reaction to the surprise moved her the most. "Everyone’s reaction made me cry because I love them all so deeply, but my grandmother’s touched me the most because she didn’t think she’d experience living in a house again in her lifetime," she said.

In fact, Alexis said it was her great-grandmother who was the last person in their immediate family to own a home. "It was a home that all her children lived in, even as adults, and their last experience of multigenerational living. When she passed away, there was no true succession plan, and they lost the home. Knowing that history, I’ve always felt a desire to bring the family back together under one roof in her honor."

Banner reading "Welcome home" with text overlay: "POV: You broke a generational curse and bought a house for your whole family (They had no idea)"
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This is, unfortunately, not uncommon for Black Americans. In 2024, 44.1% of Black Americans owned homes compared to 72.3% of white Americans. The Urban Institute says the Black-White Home Ownership gap is due to "decades of intentional, government-sponsored exclusionary zoning, redlining, and predatory lending schemes," stressing that reducing the gap "is critical to advancing racial equity in the United States."

She posted this viral moment one year after what she calls the best day of her life. Since then, there have been so many special moments in their new home. "Every day has felt like a milestone, but our first holidays were so special," she said.

Two people in matching checkered pajamas sit smiling in front of a Christmas tree decorated with ornaments, under a warm festive setting
Alexis Johnson

"My grandpa loves to barbecue, so we surprised him with a new grill for his birthday, and he made all our favorites for the 4th of July. Sitting at one table for Thanksgiving is a core memory for all of us. My mother’s favorite holiday is Christmas, and she is a master decorator during this season, so she went all out."

Alexis shared her advice for other people who are inspired to buy their family a home. "I can’t express the importance of having patience throughout this process, from saving money and finding the right home, to all the paperwork."

"It’s easy to say, 'save money,' but not having a plan for what that looks like will set you back before you even begin. Working with a financial advisor has been a game changer for me in more ways than just homeownership, shoutout to Amber! So if you’re able, I would recommend starting with that."

What do you think? Have you ever considered doing something like this for your family? Let us know in the comments!