Stranger Stops Mom in Grocery Store, Makes 'Odd' Remark About Her 9-Month-Old That's Caught on Camera (Exclusive)

Nicole tells PEOPLE she was amazed at the comment and how many other moms had heard similar ones about their own babies

• Nicole was enjoying an outing to the grocery store with her 9-month-old when a stranger approached them

• The woman commented on Nicole's daughter's seriousness ... and the fact she was still in her pajamas

• Nicole happened to be recording a vlog at the time and shared the interaction on TikTok, where it went viral and attracted the attention of other moms who have experienced similar situations

A mom enjoying her first-ever trip to the grocery store with her daughter got a taste of the mom-shaming that concerns so many.

Nicole, on TikTok @NicoleWebz, was filming a day-in-the-life video of her first weekend of solo parenting. The new mom was excited for a cute day out with her then-9-month-old daughter, when they were stopped by a stranger in the grocery store.

"I was filming myself for my vlog on my first full weekend solo parenting while my husband was out of town. I was just documenting the day, and I took my daughter to grocery store. It was actually her first time ever being at a grocery store and sitting in the cart," Nicole tells PEOPLE.

The new mom was getting a kick out of watching her little girl take in everything she was seeing and experiencing.

"Occasionally people would come up and say nice things, like 'Oh she's so cute!' or 'How old?' And this woman came up to me. And the first thing she said was, 'Oh, you're still in your jammies...' "

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The moment, caught on video in the vlog, caught the new mom off guard.

"I don't think she's meant any harm, but it was just an odd way to start a conversation," she says. "There are a lot of other ways to kind of interact with babies and then she also commented on her not smiling."

The woman can be heard remarking on the baby's expression, saying, "She's ... she's serious."

"My daughter doesn't just give out smiles to me half the time, let alone strangers," Nicole says. "I just thought that was also a peculiar. The fact that she was commenting on like her personality, or her emotions when she's a literal stranger was weird. My daughter doesn't owe her anything. It was just a very weird interaction all in all."

Nicole kept the exchange in her vlog and started getting comments on it, so she shared the encounter alone in a separate video, where it went viral.

"I was kind of shocked to see how many other moms could relate to that. It was also nice to see other people shocked and think there's nothing wrong with my daughter being in pajamas at a grocery store," Nicole says.

"Everyone was very supportive about how I wasn't doing anything wrong and saying, 'You're a great mom. You should not feel guilty about how your daughter is dressed.' So, I am glad in retrospect that I did post it. Not that I felt any sort of guilt, but it also just keeps me from feeling any sort of mom guilt, knowing that people were very supportive."

Nicole was also disheartened to hear "how commonplace it is" for strangers to comment on moms' parenting in public.

"The fundamentals are, 'If you don't have anything nice to say, just keep it to yourself,' especially when it comes to other people and their kids. I also found a lot of humor in the fact that adults women were commenting about still going to the grocery store in pajamas themselves."

Nicole's video went viral at the same time TikTok was abuzz with moms admitting their "17 diapers" experiences. She says the whole situation has opened her eyes about "how much anxiety moms already deal with."

"They don't need the comments from strangers and outsiders and even, in some cases, family members to make them second-guess themselves even more," Nicole says. "And I think there's a lot to be said in the fact that, you're looking out for your children and you have those mom instincts. That's what you should listen to them first, over the voices of literal strangers."

The new mom is hopeful that being open about her experience will help other moms who need it.

"I hope that other moms can find solace in the fact that we're not alone in this. I do hope that society starts to change," she says. "I hope that I am helping to build that community within my channel, so that other moms can feel relatable in some of those experiences that we're currently feeling."